Decision

                                          Decision...

    Umm...should i do it or should not do it ?

Tired of making a decision? Some of the decision  may benefits you but some may hurt your friends. Sometimes you may find out it is hard to make a decision. Now days many people make wrong decision because they did not think what is the consequence . Of course every decision have negative and positive result. So make sure think first...

Though you may rely on the advice and guidance of a good friend, parent, spouse, or spiritual mentor, in the end it is you and you alone who is responsible for overcoming fear and making your final decisions. For those who may experience a lack of confidence in their ability to make favorable decisions or would like to learn different ways to rely on their own inner guidance.

    Here are some guidance that might help you if you found it difficult to make a decision :

1.Collect and summarise the data systematically.

Decisions can't be made in a vacuum! Gather, collate, classify and organise the information you need to make a decision. You need to analyse and evaluate all the important factors in making the decision. Analyse the various factors involved in the problem and identify the key ones.
Highlight any critical factors upon which the success on the decision will hinge.

Sound out the views and opinions of others: they may see something you have missed.    



2. List out our own opinion
At first sight, it may appear that there is only one course of action, but that is usually not true. Even if your situation seems limited, try to make a list of alternatives. Refrain from evaluating at this point; brainstorm and write down every idea that comes to mind, as crazy as it may seem. You can always cross it off the list later, but with those crazy ideas might come some creative solutions that you might not have considered otherwise. Then ask other people for suggestions. Be terse and ask them what they might do in your situation. Sometimes strangers can offer the most creative ideas because they do not share your assumptions or biases.

3. Seeking for opinion
 Opinion from your family , friends or counsellor may come in handy. Since we are still young and lack of experience we should talk to our family member to get more opinion this method also make you and your family more closer. Next why don we ask our friend to give some opinion? Their opinion will be different because they have their own opinion, their thinking and ours is different. In addition you also can seek counsellor.  Not necessary to seek other counsellor you can seek from your school counsellor it is free and don be shy . They are always welcome you and ready to lend a hand to you. Don let shy defeat you if you want to success. 

4. Identify your objective.
 The first thing you need to decide when looking for answers is what your true objective really is. What do you actually want to know? If we don’t know exactly what we’re trying to accomplish, things can get confusing really fast. So spend some time getting a clear idea of what your objective is before you go any further.

5. Make the decision concrete.
You can endlessly re-analyze and agonize over what you’ve decided. You have to stop sometime. Make it real, write it down. Once your decision is out of your head and in the real world, your brain can stop constantly churning through the options and get on with the next task


6.Consider overarching moral principles. When encountering a situation in which there is a conflict between standards or principles, one useful strategy is to consider overarching moral principles.Overarching moral principles, which are the underlying foundation principles upon which all other standards are based, include autonomy, beneficence, nonmaleficence, justice, fidelity, and veracity. In plain English, each principle is described below.

Autonomy refers to the right of self-determination as evidenced by the freedom of an individual to make one’s own decisions and choose one’s own direction.

Beneficence refers to promoting good for others, contributing to the welfare of others, and protecting the best interests of others.

Nonmalficence refers to avoiding doing harm to others and refraining from actions that risk hurting others.

Justice refers to providing fairness to all people, regardless of age, race, gender, ethnicity, religion, national origin, or sexual orientation.

Fidelity refers to keeping one’s promises, fulfilling honoring one’s commitments, and being faithful to one’s responsibilities of trust in a relationship.

Veracity refers to being honest, truthful, and trustworthy. Trust is required to build a relationship, and honesty is required to build trust.

 Above are some steps as a guide for you all the decide your problems. Just remember think twice and look before you step.

 Hope you all will success in future.

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